Is Therapy for Men Different? How Male-Focused Approaches Can Help
Understanding Men’s Mental Health Needs
Men often experience mental health struggles differently than women. Whether it’s stress, trauma, addiction, relationship challenges, or emotional numbness, men are more likely to internalize emotions, avoid discussing mental health, and delay seeking treatment (Mahalik et al., 2022).
While therapy is beneficial for all individuals, research suggests that therapy tailored specifically for men can improve engagement, reduce stigma, and lead to better mental health outcomes (Seidler et al., 2018).
This guide explores the unique challenges men face in therapy, how male-focused approaches can help, and how to find the right fit for treatment.
Why Do Men Approach Therapy Differently?
1. Societal Expectations and Emotional Suppression
Many men are raised with the belief that emotional expression is a sign of weakness. This leads to emotional suppression, making it harder for men to:
Identify and express feelings.
Ask for help.
Engage in traditional therapy models centered around verbal processing.
Men are less likely than women to seek therapy, often waiting until a crisis occurs (Addis & Mahalik, 2003). Addressing this stigma and resistance is key to effective therapy for men.
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2. The Impact of Trauma and Stress on Men’s Mental Health
Men are at a higher risk for trauma-related disorders, including PTSD, addiction, and depression, but often mask symptoms through:
Workaholism.
Substance use.
Risk-taking behaviors.
3. Differences in Communication Styles
Men tend to prefer problem-solving approaches over emotional exploration (Courtenay, 2011). Therapy that focuses on action-based solutions, rather than solely discussing emotions, may improve engagement.
What Makes Therapy for Men Different?
1. Goal-Oriented and Action-Based Therapy
Men often respond better to therapy that emphasizes:
✅ Problem-solving rather than passive reflection.
✅ Measurable progress toward goals.
✅ Structured approaches like CBT or EMDR.
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2. Addressing Emotional Numbness and Suppression
Because many men have been conditioned to shut down emotions, therapy needs to incorporate tools for reconnecting with feelings in a way that feels practical and safe.
Effective strategies include:
Somatic Experiencing Therapy – Helps men recognize bodily signals of emotion.
Mindfulness-Based Therapy – Teaches self-awareness without forcing emotional disclosure.
3. Trauma-Focused and Addiction Recovery Approaches
Many men seek therapy after facing relationship breakdowns, addiction struggles, or work-related stress. Trauma-informed care, particularly EMDR therapy, is highly effective for addressing unresolved trauma and compulsive behaviors (Shapiro, 2018).
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Types of Therapy That Work Best for Men
1. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) for Practical Solutions
CBT is one of the most evidence-based therapies for men. It helps:
✔ Identify and change unhelpful thought patterns.
✔ Focus on immediate problem-solving.
✔ Reduce stress, anxiety, and depression.
🔗 More on CBT for Men (American Psychological Association)
2. Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) for Trauma Recovery
Men who have experienced childhood trauma, combat stress, or betrayal trauma may struggle with emotional regulation, avoidance, and compulsive behaviors.
EMDR therapy helps men process trauma without requiring extensive verbal discussion (Shapiro, 2018).
3. Group Therapy for Male Support Networks
Many men feel isolated in their struggles. Men’s therapy groups provide:
Peer accountability.
A non-judgmental environment.
Support from others with similar experiences.
How to Find the Right Therapy Fit for Men
1. Look for a Therapist Who Specializes in Men’s Issues
Therapists trained in male-focused mental health understand the challenges men face and use approaches that resonate with them.
2. Consider Online Therapy for Accessibility
Many men prefer online therapy due to flexibility, privacy, and convenience.
3. Seek Therapy That Aligns With Your Goals
Are you looking for:
✅ Trauma resolution? EMDR or Somatic Experiencing.
✅ Addiction recovery? CBT with a focus on abstinence.
✅ Relationship repair? Couples therapy and trust-building interventions.
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Final Thoughts: Therapy Can Be Different for Men—And That’s Okay
Men experience mental health challenges differently, and therapy that reflects male-specific needs leads to better engagement and success.
By focusing on goal-oriented, practical solutions, men can break through barriers to emotional well-being and build healthier relationships, careers, and personal resilience.
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APA Citations
Addis, M. E., & Mahalik, J. R. (2003). Men, masculinity, and the contexts of help seeking. American Psychologist, 58(1), 5-14. https://doi.org/10.1037/0003-066X.58.1.5
Courtenay, W. H. (2011). Dying to be men: Psychosocial, environmental, and biobehavioral directions in promoting the health of men and boys. Routledge.
Mahalik, J. R., Burns, S. M., & Syzdek, M. T. (2022). Masculinity and perceived normative health behaviors as predictors of men's health behaviors. Social Science & Medicine, 80(1), 14-21. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.socscimed.2022.03.015
Seidler, Z. E., Dawes, A. J., Rice, S. M., Oliffe, J. L., & Dhillon, H. M. (2018). The role of masculinity in men’s help-seeking for depression: A systematic review. Clinical Psychology Review, 49(1), 106-118. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.cpr.2016.09.002
Shapiro, F. (2018). Eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR) therapy: Basic principles, protocols, and procedures (3rd ed.). Guilford Press.
